You can’t please everybody…

It takes too long a time for many to understand this. Life is an interesting arena. You get a lot of fans and foes, all in one single sweep of responsible action. Just as you can be liked in a moment, you can be permanently fractured from some people’s minds and they will not like […]

Include & Preclude Modality

We sometimes get overwhelmed by the excessive contents of possibilities surrounding us. So many things are possible, it all depends on your preference. Take an extreme scenario. Between living to a full, ripe old age and abruptly seizing from existence is a simple choice. And that choice makes us self-preserving… Or who among us would […]

What do you think?

We know what others think and we are so ignorant about what we really really think. We pander to others, always downsizing ourselves while those same people too pander to some others and downsize themselves until there will be no sense of dignity & humanity in us all anymore. Should we only think of what […]

Choice

“You will become as small as your controlling desire, as great as your dominant aspirations.” James Allen As I think about the possibilities of life and the opposites that may result, I am more and more convinced that we are all products of our choice(s). We are always making choices and these preferences are sending […]

Attitude

Attitude is everything. We should not expect to live without some form of resistance. The weather, the economy, peer pressure, other people’s emotions running can make life look miserable. But, if you have a clear picture of where you want to be and a fair idea of when you will like to get there, you […]

Gay

The whole confusion about the possibility of advance ambivalence (that is what I can call this thing about) – a physical man behaving like a woman or a physical woman behaving like a man – is another proof of man’s ability to control himself and determine his destiny. Just the same way people end up […]